Five Things You Must Know If You Want Him Back
• DON’T CALL HIM – LET HIM CALL YOU! If he wants to call, let him call you. Being perpetually hassled is not going to do you any favors. Let him have the [chance to actually miss you. The same goes for letting him see you hurt – try not to let him see he has the aces.
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• BE REASONABLE : Now is not the time to start making demands or being petty about stuff. Resist the temptation to tear up his favorite shirts. The onus is on you to try and find a way to get him to see you in a better light. Concentrate on being the listener and try and build some bridges. This doesn’t mean lying down and accepting everything he says or does without question, though.
• GET OUT THERE!: Getting back in the saddle, so to speak, is the best way to beat a broken heart. It doesn’t have to be a date (although that certainly isn’t a bad thing) but try and remain upbeat. It won’t do any harm to let your ex see you can enjoy yourself without him!
• DON’T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE YOU AREN’T : Absolutely don’t try and live up to what you think is someone else’s expectations of you. He chose you for a reason, they were attracted to you for the person you are. There is no need to start altering yourself loads to fit in with you think their idea of perfect is. It should be enough that you can be happy as you are!
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• LISTEN TO HIM: Was there a definite reason that he broke up with you? Was the partnership having problems – is there anything that can be done? Maybe you weren’t doing enough things as a couple? Were financial issues the sore point? If the issue is basically superficial it may be easier to fix than if it is a basic question of compatibility. There is some in between wanting to keep your partner and having to completely alter everything, though.
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