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Get My Ex Girlfriend Back Together With Me

September 29th, 2009

Because many men have a bizarre fear of commitment, “get my ex girlfriend back” advice is in high demand. Men will leave their girlfriends looking for something better, only to soon realize that they made a mistake. Then, they must find a way to get their girlfriend back.

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Here are some of the most ridiculous reasons I’ve seen for men breaking up with perfectly good women:
1) wearing the wrong type of shoes!
2) Her mother
3) The new barmaid at his favorite bar smiled at him.

I am aware that any of the reasons above, and others, can seem quite real at the time. It is often not until after the breakup that you realize that you two should still be together. Before you breakup with a girl for ’some’ reason, you might want to reflect more on the reason and decide if it really warrants a breakup.

There are some things you can do before you make your mind up to break up with a girlfriend to make sure that it is the right decision. One of them is to make a list. In this case, two lists. For the first, list all the reasons that you like being in the relationship. Write down everything you like about her. For example, does she cook for you?

After you have written down everything pleasant about your girlfriend that you can think of, it is time to write the things you do not like about her. Again, write down everything you can think of.

Writing the good and bad points of your life together down on paper may seem like a cold tactic but it is a very practical way of seeing what a great relationship you do/did have. You need to compare the two lists and decide if you should be breaking up with this woman. If you are doing it after the event, it also helps to clarify if you made the right decision to finish the relationship. Sometimes we regret breaking up as we end up feeling lonely.  But loneliness is not a reason to get back together.

Once you realize that the woman you dumped is certainly the one for you, then you should start right away at working to get her back. A good fit is hard to find. Your biggest mistake is thinking that something better will come along. 

The first thing you must do is get back on her radar without being too pushy or suffocating. Give her a simple phone call. Send her a text message. If it feels right, go out for a cup of coffee or for dinner. Once you are spending time with her again, then next moves will become more clear. If you start getting cold feet again, fight it. You know better now.

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