Get Your Ex Back - 5 Things That Will Wreck Your Chances
If you are having a hard time getting over a recent breakup. Here are a few things you can’t do if you want to get your ex back. Most people will end up doing one or the other of these simply because they know no different.
1 - Telling lies to others about your ex
This little no-no will put an end to any possible chance you have of getting them back. Put the shoe on the other foot and think how you would cope with your ex telling everyone lies about you. I certainly wouldn’t like it. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!
2 - Getting your ex to be a bit jealous
Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But it won’t work if they know you want them back and are desperate to get back together. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.
3 - The stalker
We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. The worst you can be seen is downright frightening and potentially dangerous. This could easily lead to an arrest and I don’t think I need to tell you what that’ll do for your chances.
4 - Revenge is sweet
Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? You can’t love your ex as much as you think if you are planning some kind of revenge. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.
5 - Calling & texting constantly
Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Constantly pestering your ex with texts and calls could be deemed as a form of torture. This is not the look you are going for. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.
So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.
A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.
When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.
Choose to get your ex back, don’t leave it to fate.
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