Guide to Freeing Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …
“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly wish to reach my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and releasing the past. Since you want to find your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of releasing. It’s faster and simpler than you’d think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. It was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Also, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you think you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I have found that the idea of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I’m not speaking of the type of forgiving where we’re excusing someone’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It is important to understand what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.
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