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I Didn’t Think I Would Get My Wife Back, But I Did Using Psychological Methods

August 5th, 2009

When I broke up with my wife the last thing I thought would happen was for me to get my wife back. Sometimes strange things happen.

I was so distraught I just did not have a clue where to turn. I spent ages looking for articles and stuff to help me get over her but what I came across was info on how to get her back.

I thought this was too good to be true, I rarely fall for this kind of stuff. But I decided to test it out, for the sake of a measly forty bucks.

It came with a few extras and one of them was a report on how psychology works in our lives. It explained how with subtle hints you can almost mind control people.

This part of the package spoke out loud to me. I recognised these methods straight away. Psychological triggers I had used on my children to get them to do things they didn’t want to.

The old reverse psychology stuff is used all the time, everywhere. Imagine you are going on a run and you try to get a pal to go with you.

They’re not that keen on it so you slip in a comment like “if you don’t feel physically up to it that’s ok”. They puff out their chest and come back with “of course I’m up to it, when do we start”.

That’s psychology in action there. You used their own sense of pride against them. The same type of subtle methods can be used to woo your ex round.

I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!

She called me back within a day and the important bit was she actually believed she was calling out of the blue. To find out how I was and what I was up to. She didn’t knowingly realise I had planned this with the seeded message.

I didn’t ask her to call me when I left the message. But I was pretty confident she would call me. And I was right.

It was smooth sailing for us after this point. She was sure it was her that made the first move and I wasn’t going to tell her that it was me.

After the breakup I was looking for stuff to help me get over her and I ended up doing a u-turn and trying to get my ex back. Which worked out well for me.

Even if it didn’t work for me I would have got my money back and gone out and saw a game!

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Could You Use The Same Psychological Trick That I Used To Get My Wife Back?

August 2nd, 2009

Chances are you are here because of one thought floating about your mind. That thought is - get my wife back - get my wife back - get my wife back - I’m sure you get it.

I certainly get the picture as I too was dumped from a great height. That was the only thought going through my mind for weeks and weeks.

First off you need to get a plan. Without one you are doomed to fail. Luckily there’s a lot of info on the net from people who’ve been dumped and successfully reversed the situation.

I’m not saying it’s easy and I’m not saying it’ll happen overnight but it’s certainly something you can do (get your ex back) with a bit of effort.

You could go on and on gathering info and tips and tricks. And knowing whether it’s any good is nigh on impossible.

Here’s where we can use other people’s experiences. As we all function on the same mental level what works for thousands of others is going to work for us.

I was very sceptical of any book or course working like this but I was quite wrong. It worked very well for me.

I can’t claim that one psychological trick worked to get her back but it put into motion a chain of events. A chain that ended with us back as a couple.

The trick I started with was one where I got my wife to actually phone me and initiate the conversation, without actually asking. I used the power of curiosity.

Curiosity is a massive driving factor in our lives. We are by nature curious to know. It’s more than that, it’s a need. We need to know.

I phoned my ex and left a message and I made sure I got the curiosity hook in the message. Sure enough she was on the phone back to me within the day.

It was plain sailing after this as my wife was now doing the running after me. I had left a simple message loaded with a curiosity hook and she had taken it up from there.

I’d be willing to wager 99 out of 100 people would call back after receiving a message like that.

When she called I had to follow through with my plan but like I said, it isn’t my original plan. I wasn’t the author. It cost me less than our last pre-split date to download the package.

I don’t tell people in the real world but it was worth every penny to me. Truly it was. I would have paid many times the price had I known how good it would work.

I don’t think it’s ethical to re-print other peoples work so I can’t show you what I did.

I think if someone has taken the time to put their (successful) methods down on paper and packaged it up in an easy to follow plan, then the very least they deserve is the chance to sell their ideas to you.

I can point you in the same direction that I took. When I had a burning need to get my wife back these methods did it for me. I can’t see why it wouldn’t work for you.

Having said all the above your wife isn’t coming back without your help. Make the first move but like me make her think it was her who made the first move. It’s all powerful stuff.

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Get My Wife Back Before She’s Long Gone

August 2nd, 2009

A breakup can be one of the worst period of your life.
The pain is as real as any pain you will ever get.
In this situation a rapid solution is needed to get your ex back.

Whether you realise it or not, there’s a good chance you could reverse this split.
Even when you believe the relationship is dead, it can be turned right around.
There’s a whole host of systems available that can help you get back together.

I was desperate to get my wife back when we split and I used one of these systems.
I found a few likely candidates while researching on the internet.
They looked good; they had good reports so I decided to try them.

The systems I used cost me about forty dollars.
I believe my wife is worth at least that kind of cash.
I’m sure you feel the same about your ex, be it a wife or girlfriend.

The content of these systems was eye opening to me.
In one section it mentioned I could get my wife back with psychological tactics.
I’d never had experience of psychological mind games.

I was pleasantly surprised by this stuff.
I began to believe that these systems might work.
My goal of getting my wife back was starting to look real.

The initial step was quite a puzzling one for me.
The system said leave her a cryptic message.
The message was to explain how thankful I was and that everything was going ok.

The idea being that she would be curious enough about the message to call me back.
Imagine my surprise when she called the next day.
She was curious as to why I would thank her and what I was doing.

I said the split had made me grow up & see sense for once.
Of course the trick was to get her to call back and she did.
I was really surprised she called back so quickly.

That’s the first step taken care of, on the step two.
Step two involved inviting her out for coffee somewhere together.
Three or four coffees later I thought she would be pretty comfy in all this.

My next step was to gently nudge her into having a meal out with me.
Moving from coffee to a meal was easy enough for her.
Going from a phone conversation to a meal would be a bit of a stretch.

I’m sure you are starting to get the idea here. Coax her into comfortable small steps.
She should be feeling at ease before you put the next step into play.
Then it’s moving her to the next step, or level.

To get my wife back I went through a series of small steps like this.
You may well achieve your goal in a lesser number of steps as your plan may differ.
The main thing is the system; you need this to follow the step by step rules.

It took me roughly six or seven weeks to get my wife back.
I always always obeyed the rule in the system.
As far as I’m concerned, it was money well spent as it did indeed get her back.

To sum up, a step by step system is exactly what you need to get your ex back.
You can find a review of the systems I used on my site.
A friend of mine also reviews a video course that he swears by.

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I Want To Get My Wife Back With Psychological Moves

August 1st, 2009

Yes it’s possible to get your wife back with psychological methods. And the best of it is they aren’t heavy or manipulative.

Everyday lots of people use these tricks without realising they are doing it.

To answer yes to “can I get my wife back” you need to put together a plan. Without one you could have the best tricks in the world but you won’t succeed.

Formulate a plan and take action. How do you put a plan together? Luckily a lot of the work is already done.

You aren’t the only one that’s had a breakup. I know exactly how you feel. So we will take a short cut and use their successful methods.

There is some great stuff on the net. You got to find it, read it, put it in your plan. Only trouble is by the time you are done, she’s gone for good.

Good news is that there’s some ready made step by step manuals out there. Other guys and gals that have been dumped have done the work for you.  I know ‘coz I used their stuff.

Unfortunately they aren’t free. Not much is free these days right? A decent plan will set you back as much as a night out. She’s got to be worth at least that right?

When I was in your shoes I heavily used the psychological methods to come round to my way of thinking. You could do that too. But there’s much more to it than just that. You need to be in a good place mentally or your plan won’t come off.

The extras that come in these courses have some great stuff in them to do just that, help you get your head straight.

You get like a virtual hand holding yours every step of the way. You can’t really go wrong. Well, you can but if you follow your plan right you give your self the best chance of getting your wife back.

You’re here for that reason aren’t you? For the knowledge to answer your question “I want to get my wife back“. I’m just pointing you in the direction I went. It’s up to you now.

And at the very worst if you buy into one of these packages and it doesn’t work, get a refund and go to the game! Your next ex wife might be sat in the next seat.

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