How To Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend In 3 Quick Steps
OK, you screwed up. You did something dumb or thoughtless or unforgiveable… and now you want your ex girlfriend back.
So, what’s your plan? How are you gonna get her back… where she belongs?
Try these 3 proven tactics.
Give Her Roses
OK, stop laughing. I know that sounds corny and old fashioned. Like something your grandfather would do. A lot of men claim that modern women don’t fall for that sentimental stuff. And those know-it-all men are ABSOLUTELY WRONG!
Most women ADORE flowers. And they really love it when their special men take the effort and time to give their favorite flowers. Something with a special meaning for her.
Listen to me on this. One of the best and fastest ways to get your girlfriend back is to give her flowers. You’ve gotta do more than that, but showing you care is a fantastic first step.
Talk To Her, Openly
Women need to talk. So, let her. Don’t interrupt. Don’t jump the gun and offer solutions before you’ve heard the problem. Don’t pretend to listen while you watch the game. Listen… like she’s the most wonderful, fascinating, desirable woman on earth.
And if you want her back… your ex girlfriend IS the most fascinating woman for you. And after you’ve listened to her… she’ll listen to you. You made her feel important and special and loved… so she’ll return the favor.
Then both of you can explain–openly, honestly, without blame–exactly why you broke up. And you might find ways to overcome those problems. That’s a wonderful second step!
Appreciate Her
This is the critical step in getting your ex girlfriend to come back. She will only come back ONLY if being with you is better–satisfies her needs more–than being away from you. If you give her more of what she wants–add value to her life–than anybody else does… she’ll come back. If you don’t… she won’t.
What does she really want? Aretha Franklin knows. She wants RESPECT.
And to feel appreciated. Over the years, she’s done a ton of things–big and small–for you. How frequently did you say “thanks”. How frequently did you tell her how much you appreciated all the things she did for you? How frequently did you tell her just how much she meant to you?
For most guys, the answers are “rarely”, “almost never”, and “never”. That was your real mistake. You might think she left you because of some other reason… but lack of appreciation… lack of RESPECT… is the fundamental problem. Fix that, and all those other problems–that seemed so important–will just fade away.
Show her (don’t just talk–do something) how much you really appreciate her… how much your really respect her… and how much she really means to you… and you’ll get your ex girlfriend back so fast you’ll get whiplash.
And what’s more important… you’ll be the sort of loving, caring, tender man who deserves to have a wonderful woman like her back in his arms.
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