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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …

“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly wish to reach my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?

You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and releasing the past. Since you want to find your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of releasing. It’s faster and simpler than you’d think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.

Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I can hear some of you right now saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. It was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Also, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you think you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.

I have found that the idea of forgiveness can be a loaded one. Firstly, I’m not speaking of the type of forgiving where we’re excusing someone’s bad behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It is important to understand what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Do you ever question if you’re with the ‘right’ one? How do you truly know for sure? This is a question I get asked when the relationship has several ups and downs. The problem could either be you are getting lots of stop and go signs, or it may take lots of grueling work to have the relationshiop run well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take effort, but they don’t need to be hard labor. Communication is pretty simple. You can feel free to say what is on your mind. When situations get hairy, and they will, you have the courage and presence of mind to smoothe the situation over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.

A functioning relationship shouldn’t seem like difficult labor. Love and mutual respect are at the core of any relationship. That being said, you shouldn’t underestimate the power of the Ego to mess things up. Not knowing where you’re at in your own level of maturity, it’s hard to say what’s happening in your life. In any relationship, you have the ability to remake what you have. That is right. You can remake your current relationship. Anyone dedicated to being in a lasting, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.

I am going to assist you in banishing all of the muddled signals you have been taught concerning your emotions. You are ready to gain the clarity of what your emotions are attempting to communicate to you; and best of all – you will never again be in the dark about whether you are ATTRACTING a perfect relationship or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you want to know how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.

The real question is are YOU letting the Law of Attraction to work for what you REALLY want? In other words, the Law of Attraction is always mirroring back to you your primary vibration. What you want to be aware of is, what is my main intention on the topic of creating love? I answer these kinds of questions and lots more pertaining to new relationship advice for women in my Law of Attraction Life Coaching and training programs.

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A woman named Helen from Ohio came to me and asked about letting herself forgive her Ex so she could move on with her life. Helen really desires to attract a soul mate that will not only last a long time, but one that will also become closer with time. Many people understand that question. They can relate to the hurt they’re holding on to from a past failed relationship. Coaching for your relationship, whether it ended years ago or is a current love trouble can help. A few online love coaching sessions specific to your marriage issues can be wonderfully helpful.

Before you read any further, you need to pat yourself on the back for actually DESIRING to forgive your ex-spouse. That’s big. If you will set your intention to release a small piece every day, within a very small amount of time you’ll see your energy release and dissapear. It’s a necessity to release even for those who don’t think there’s anything left to release. Forgiveness is an ongoing process and one that releases YOU the most. Another good practice is to access some things that you love about your former relationship. It doesn’t have to be related to the romance. Perhaps you liked the way he did the home repairs. Or you liked what a good circle of friends he has. Maybe you loved his grin. It can be whatever you want. The object is to start to search for aspects that you appreciated. You do this for no other reason than to change your energy about him. You release your energy.

When you forgive yourself and others you generate space. Space to create more of what’s desired. And for all of us, what’s wanted is to receive more love. I teach all about letting go, clearing out and making room both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Donna from North Carolina wrote me to ask me that question As a Law of Attraction relationship coach, here’s the relationship advice I have for her. Donna, It’s so important that you realize how critical it is to release the past before a love relationship can come in.

The Law of Attraction states “you attract more of what you focus on.” Before we can welcome in our new love relationship, clearing out the past and healing old wounds is necessary. The past takes up emotional space. And you can’t put something in the place where the space is already occupied. You’d never try to park your car in a spot that already had a car there.. Then why try to have a successful relationship when holding onto hurts or grudges from the past?

You can get online Law of Attraction relationship coaching to teach you how to create emotional space as a way of clearing that out. You want to look at what energy you’re holding about the hurt. Also you’ve got a belief that is running in the background that doesn’t serve you. Once you clear out your past hurt and the energy it holds, you’ll be able to say ‘yes’ to love..

You may have a smile on your face and be dressed to the nines with a smile on your face, but you’ve got this energy field you’re dragging around that’s draining your energy and killing the possibility of living a happy fulfilling life in relationship~As long as you’re dragging around the past with all the drama and trauma, it doesn’t matter where you go or how good you look, you won’t be completely fulfilled.

I teach so much more about how to Make Space and Clearing Out the Old AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …

Peter from Florida asks: How can I super charge my romance? How can I improve my marriage?

Thank you, Peter. You’re proof that romantic guys are out there. I got one, and so can you..

Over time, it appears that the passion or thrill has decreased. We can restimulate and recreate the passion. Believe it or not, it’s more a matter of choice and intentionality.When we choose to become purposeful and focused on an outcome, we can see shifts in a matter of moments.

Life can get methodical and it’s important to know what’s fundamental in our relationship. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.

What you place your attention on will expand in your experience. So you have to look at and appreciate what you do want; an improved romance. To help this along, think of what you really love about your mate. Place more attention on what you love about the time you spend together and the times in the past you’ve spent together that have been sublime

Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Do you best to stay away from focusing on the elements that don’t work so well. You’d rather have what you want, not more of what you DON’T want.

I teach about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

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