Have you recently broke up and you’ve reached the conclusion you can’t live without her? If you’re wanting to learn how to win her back then my advice is take control with psychological tactics. Some would say using these tactics is borderline immoral. Their opinions don’t count when it comes to getting her back.
You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. Employers use these tactics with employee of the month. Production is way up as everyone battles to win the shiny plaque.
Sneakily get her to return your call
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.
Of course the real reason for the letter was to get her to call you. If you play this one right you can eventually have her believe she made first contact with you again. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.
I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.
Memories are there to be used
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.
If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. Her subconscious will transfer some of her love for the song back to you.
Make her a bit jealous & curious
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.
As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She won’t be expecting you out & about having fun so soon. If it works right she starts to feel that it should be you & her out and not you & your friends.
These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Other may look on them as wrong, but they aren’t going to do any lasting harm. They are quite simple and harmless. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.
If you want to discover a step by step system that will take you by the hand while you try to win her back, then check out my website…
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